A Welcome to a Long-Awaited Son

Thursday, 13th November, 2008: The Day of Your Birth

It was around 4am when Grandad Mark’s mobile phone rang, waking us from our sleep. Thirty minutes earlier, she had rolled out of bed onto the floor in a cascade of waters. Your Mummy has always been a very dramatic person!

Here is a photo of the sky on the morning of your birth, when I looked out towards the south. The omens had been positive: my favourite Blue Wren and his Jenny Wren had been around; cacophonies of bird songs abounded in the garden; and a cricket had chirruped inside for two nights leading up to your coming. I knew that the signs were good for your imminent arrival, especially your Mummy’s assertive “nesting” behaviour (e.g. sanding and painting in “Bright Rhubarb” your e-Bay sideboard), so I was not surprised, though a ittle shocked, when we got the phone call at 4 am.

So I am tired but happy that you, a little Scorpio, have joined us on earth. I know that you are a very special little boy, for you are surrounded by so much love and anticipation, from your Mummy and Daddy, Grandma Lee, whose name you will inherit, and Grandad Mark and me (your other Grandma), as well as your relatives in Auckland and my sisters and aunt and uncle. One day you will also get to know your Uncle Joel, a very loving person, and your little cousin, Ariadne, and her family.

Grandma Lee has devoted hours and hours to knitting you two very special soft toys that you will soon get to know. You have multiple copies of everything in the way of clothing in natural fibres and swaddling pieces, more than any baby could ever wish for!

Your Daddy is going to be a hands-on father, I know, and he will dote on you and be there for you whenever you need him. Daddy has two doggies, Gibson and Fender, for you to play with when you are old enough, and you even have an older Kiwi brother, Jaydin, whom you will get to meet one day.

Mummy has been actively “nesting” for weeks now. She will be a wonderful mother. She has been to a special course with Daddy, and she has watched dozens of videos on birthing and child rearing, as well as read heaps of books, and can answer any question that one could put to her on the subjects. She has lost all fear: “Knowledge is power!” says Grandma Lee.

Mummy has made the house perfect for your arrival. She has been asking for advice on housekeeping tips from me, and together we have worked out a schedule and bought lots of necessities for this end. Grandma Lee has made a veggie garden and Mummy has worked on bringing some order into the back yard. Everything is ready for you, darling boy!

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